A NEW PSYCHOLOGY FOR THE MILLENIUM

A talk to the BDA Eastern group at Bury St. Edmunds. 20.10.98 Neil. Davies

Introduction.

Tom and I have collaborated on a number of projects recently. We seem to share a similar view of the need for deep change in the nature of the psychological theories that we have all inherited from the past. I feel this new thinking in psychology is so important that it would help to have it discussed by from slightly different angles. I will attempt to explain the need for change in the assumptions we make about what motivates people to behave. Then I'll outline how I have attempted to apply the ideas, and deal with the consequences. Tom will relate the thinking to his collaboration with people in industry, and the links to other work in psychology. We both have enough material for a series of talks and would like to think of tonight as an introduction to the field. If you think about which aspects appear most useful or interesting to you, then we may explore them at a later date. Tom will now set the scene for what follows.

Experiment and theory in conflict

Alfie Kohn was talking on the Oprah Winfrey Show recently. Some teachers who saw it were impressed with his descriptions of a study where two groups of children were given the same mathematical puzzle. One group was promised rewards upon completion, and to the other no mention of rewards was made. The rewarded group didn't finish, appeared bored and were totally focused upon the reward. The non-rewarded group worked faster, completed the task, did a much better job, worked together and enjoyed the problems so much that they asked for more.

This is equivalent to the Michelson-Morley experiment of 1887 the test of Newton's Laws which finally killed of the idea of the ether. The speed of light was found to be the same in the direction of the earth, and at 90o to it. The principle of relativity was born in 1905. I believe that we are now witnessing the equivalent in psychology.

The interest of teachers is something I find interesting. There are hundreds of studies like this all demonstrating something that questions 'common sense' assumptions about what is going on. The reason is that most of us expect the opposite result. This work comes mainly from the field of Social Psychology and goes back to the late 30's: (Lewin, K., Lippitt, R., and White, R. Patterns of aggressive behaviour in experimentally created "social climates." Journal of Social Psychology; 10. 271-299.)

There was a very productive period in the 70's and 80's: For example Richard deCharms. (1976). 'Enhancing Motivation. Change in the Classroom'. Irvington Publishers. In this lengthy study his team increased pupils' sense of their own control in the classroom, at the same time as decreasing teacher's attempts to maintain strict control, through a training programme introducing alternative discipline methods (similar to Reality Therapy.) The achievement of pupils increased significantly, and reliably, as their motivation was correspondingly enhanced. Teachers who moved too quickly to change their style were disappointed at the chaos that could result. Others were concerned that developing motivation took time away from the teaching of their subject matter; and they were anxious about test results.

It was a simple step for me to test out some of these ideas in the classroom. I sat in a circle with the kids one day and talked about what helped them learn most effectively. How could we get rid of fear and anxiety from the classroom? I suggested we try to abolish rewards, such as grades and commendations, substitute other methods of feedback, and also punishments such as detentions, minus points, me shouting and anything else we could think of. We would talk about how this felt and whether it made learning more effective. Eventually I began to tell them about the management ideas themselves in the way that we will discuss them tonight. They slowly shifted to self-evaluation of their own work as a natural outcome of my ceasing to manipulate them from the outside.

After a two year study the results have confirmed the work of deCharms. All positive measures of work improved. Behaviour, motivation, work quality and pleasure in the work. This was reflected in an increase in summative assessment scores compared to control groups. The effect on parents was also interesting and unexpected. What are you doing? They talk about your classes all the time? They are so much happier. You have not only increased their motivation for maths, but for all subjects, and life itself. Why isn't what you're doing school policy?

As the study progressed these effects increased, and were particularly evident on parents evenings. I started giving out articles and references on the management methods that I was using, quoting Deming, Glasser, Kohn, etc. Also advice on discipline in the home and counselling techniques that would help them talk to their children in a non-judgemental tone of voice. We discussed accepting, most difficult of all, that the control you have over your own children is very limited. The only possible influence you can have is due to your relationship with them, and that must not be harmed at all costs. Try not to be coercive, ask about their plans and how they think you might be able to help them. Pupils reported changes in relationships with parents; they felt more relaxed and were getting on better. There were sometimes quite emotional scenes with people grasping me and saying that I was the first teacher they had ever met who talked any sense. In a short while I had gone from being just a teacher of maths to a person youngsters found a useful source of life experience and advice. They used to ask me why they had not been told about understanding their needs and motivation before. Many felt it was the most important knowledge they had ever received.

These developments did not escape the notice of the management. The feedback to the head in particular, and the fact that I was getting results (i.e. no complaints and good exam scores), helped me to maintain my idiosyncratic approach. Managers were concerned that I was diverging from school policy and tried to get me to give grades. But on the whole they were very tolerant and gave me a surprising amount of freedom. For example I later discovered they found ways to give out commendations certificates to my class without even telling me. I was allowed to publish articles on the work, as long as the school was not mentioned, since one governor felt that my work was particularly seditious. For a while I visited other schools who were interested in the ideas, but this was eventually stopped after approaches to the LEA.

In March 1998 Black and Wiliam published a review of the literature on classroom formative assessment. Innocent sounding but the implications for the education service are far-reaching. A lengthy study of world research into the nature of assessment was recommending that the way to raise standards is to replace marks and grades with meaningful feedback in the form of comments on the work, such as how it could be improved. They also recommend avoiding competition and using co-operation at all times. Four months later the school produced an assessment policy advocating precisely the opposite. None on the working group had looked at any of the psychological or educational research.

All the time I sensed deeply rooted value conflicts at work in me. Is it the same for others? OHP:

An Imagined Continuum

external control - internal control

subject matter - life-adjustment

behaviourism - choice theory

authoritarian - democratic

traditional - progressive

repressive - permissive

silence - discussion

pawn - origin

I now imagine a continuum with coercion at one end, and freedom at the other. I want to move away from the need for coercion as much as possible, but I accept wild swings between extremes, sometimes within milliseconds. At my present EBD (Emotional and Behavioural Difficulties) school the continuum seems to have altered somehow. I am now generally far less coercive than I was in mainstream, but have used physical restraint a number of times. I have waited patiently for the last 5 weeks for some children to start work, trying persuasion, not coercion. At last they are beginning to trust me and have started work. I get surprising comments like "it feels good to be learning again - its like primary school."

The paradox appears to be that you release control in order to get more. What is being advocated is not an abdication of responsibility, but a commitment to a leadership style that is more in tune with the psychological needs of those leading, and those led. In education, as in all walks of life, this defines the limits of what is possible; and says that although we cannot get miracles, we would expect to see work which both we, and our pupils, agree is of higher and increasing quality, simply because it has been need satisfying in its execution. This may be an ambitious goal, but it is worth pursuing, and may be easier to attain than we realised, once we start to work with a more appropriate model of what it means to be human.

The mythology of theory

'No knowledge without theory' is an important phrase. To be alive is to operate with assumptions and theories about the nature of this reality around us. There could be no interpretation, or meaning, otherwise. These assumptions are silent for most of us, we are not aware of them, and may find them difficult to uncover and verbalise. For example we talk about the colours in nature, and in doing so deny all we know today of the relationship between electro-magnetic radiation and our nervous systems. There are no colours in nature. The entire visual scene for you is being produced at the back of your brains and projected outwards as a 'virtual' world. Yet we are not even conscious of that for most of the time. Our language structure serves to solidify for us the assumptions about reality passed on by culture.

We are tied inexorably to our theories. As conditions in the world change, in order to adapt we need to question and change our theories constantly. Just such a change is taking place within psychology right now, I believe.

Feuerstein saw this in 1980. He wrote:

"Whereas psychoanalysis attempted to penetrate the depths of the 'black box' of the mind, behaviourism emerged as a reaction against any form of introspection and 'outlawed' the concept of mind. Only those behaviours directly observable were regarded worthy of scientific endeavour. Thus, with a single stroke, behaviourism effectively removed from psychology the entire apparatus of man's capacity to think and reason.....As a consequence, for many years experimental psychology was simply irrelevant for education."

'Instrumental Enrichment' (1980) University Park Press; p5.

The last sentence still appears to be true for our education service today. One objective for me tonight is to confirm the need for a change in our thinking. Once we see the benefits using a more appropriate model of motivation and behaviour we may also agree with the phrase 'there is nothing so practical as a good theory'.

Alfie Kohn has studied the work of social psychologists from the seventies onwards. He has concluded that most of us (in the US and the UK at least) live under the spell of a doctrine that pervades every aspect of our existence. He uses the term 'behaviourism' for it and is fond of attacking B.F.Skinner - 'The Father of Behaviourism'.

This holds that we are controlled by stimuli external to us. We sit at a red traffic light until the stimulus changes. It is a short step to control children through manipulators like rewards and punishments. Add to this an atmosphere of competition, in which one gets the reward, or avoids the punishment, at the expense of others, and you have the theory of motivation which now dominates our education system, and much child-rearing practice. He has done an excellent job of debunking this theory and I don't propose to summarise his work tonight.

In education I know that practically everyone that I ever met (except for children) have been mesmerised by this idea. They do not even recognise the counter-arguments when they are put forward and cannot tolerate any attack on the core assumption of this external control psychology.

I speak from personal experience. A few years ago I discovered that it pervaded my own thinking. When my first son was born I remember delighting in observing the explorations of his world. But as he got older and began to assert his will over mine there grew in me a desire to make him better by punishing him. All the symptoms of the bully were there; he deserved it, it was good for him, not my fault but his. When he reached 5 his brother was born and the tendency to smack them grew. This was the treatment I remembered from my father. I can just recall the self-loathing which accompanied what I did. At the time I was desperate to find another way to go on, but felt compelled to do it, as if being controlled myself by some outside force. When not punishing them I was thinking of ways to bribe and reward them; schemes to get them to tidy up their room, etc. I employed all I knew of psychology at the time - all to no effect.

This theory is not wrong, but we have misunderstood its time scale and usefulness in human affairs. It is ultimately about control and many seem to sacrifice almost anything in a desperate attempt to push others in the direction they want them to go. In education the whole purpose of fitting people for a responsible role in a democratic society seems to be lost in a bureaucratic morass of 20,000 competitive examinations that youngsters may take:

When competition is added the corrosion runs deeper:

I feel behaviourism runs much deeper than Skinner. I see a struggle that is at least 2000 years old with Christianity, based on love and forgiveness, trying to replace an earlier doctrine of rewards in heaven and punishment in hell. This battle is still going on in the Church today, and will probably not be resolved until a new language, to express spiritual feeling, begins to emerge. Is it possible that a theoretical divide between two great systems of thought has seen this dilemma throughout the 100,000 years since homo-sapiens emerged in Africa?

An alternative

What do we replace it with today now that we have at last turned our scientific ingenuity inwards towards the urgent need to understand ourselves? The new psychology is not a new idea in the world. Some words have been coined to provide a robust challenge to the doctrine of behaviourism that so pervades our entire culture. I am going to use some of the terminology of William Glasser because he has provided for me a very simple set of ideas which make sense of some complex phenomena.

This is an Internal Control model to contrast with the External Control idea of behaviourism. We are seen as directed from within by powerful drives which must be satisfied at all costs. We have no choice over this. The only choice we eventually can have is how we find ways to meet them in the unique world that each person inhabits. This diagram the start of a model for the operation of the brain: OHP
Love

Belonging

Companionship

Relatedness
Power

Significance

Self-worth

Competence
Freedom

Self-determination

Responsibility
Fun

Pleasure

Enjoyment
Survival

Food Oxygen

Shelter Warmth

Sleep Exercise
How you get these determines your

Quality World

The needs which drive all behaviour

There are observed to be great variations between and within individuals as to the relative strengths of these needs. After survival the four higher or cortical needs are those that are of particular interest to managers and counsellors. If any one of these remains unsatisfied then this is experienced on a scale of unhappiness from unease to severe pain. The consequence is an urge to do something, or behave. Hence all behaviour is seen to be an attempt to satisfy one or more of these needs.

We may contrast the two models in the next diagram: OHP of Behaviourism vs. Choice Theory.

These two theories are incompatible. There seems to be no reconciliation between them. With these diagrams I have tried to stress the implications for responsibility arising from the two contrasting models of motivation and behaviour. External Control (for example punishment) it turns out removes an individual's responsibility for their own behaviour. This comes as a shock for those who punish in order to instil the sense of responsibility.

The name of Choice Theory has recently been given, by Glasser, to a feedback model based on the view of motivation as deriving from the need to gain Internal satisfaction of the needs. Interpretations of reality are weighed against how the needs are doing inside the core of our being. The Quality World is the name he has given to the pictures that we create of how we can do justice to the genetic needs that are driving us to behave. The balance represents the judgements we make about how successful we are in meeting our needs. Thus a scale in balance means temporary happiness, and no urge to behave.

Managing and Counselling

The two roles are very different. When counselling a person, they choose to talk with us because they are not happy with what is happening in their lives, their scales are out of balance and they seek our help. The manager, in contrast, has an agenda for the person. They may be perfectly happy with their lives, it is others who may not be. For example the child who disrupts lessons and feels that it is the teacher's fault for being so boring. We have to try to convince them to change.

After parenting, teaching is the hardest job there is. The good teacher has to try to persuade disaffected and unhappy pupils that it is in their best interest to work hard in a place they have not chosen to be. This is a good test for Choice Theory which is why the subtitle of Quality School is 'Managing Students Without the Need for Coercion'.

The application of Choice Theory to both management and counselling has been given the name Reality Therapy. It is a technique of counselling, similar to the 12 step AA approach, which directs the person to see themselves as choosing their own misery, not hapless victims of a cruel world. It is centred on the present, and what they can do in the future to change the way they behave, and hence feel. In a non-judgemental atmosphere of trust and confidence we try to help the person to face up to their reality and find ways to behave that help them to satisfy their needs effectively. This usually means through relationships with others, who are themselves getting their needs met in exchange. It is not an attempt to dig over the past to find excuses for irresponsibility or inaction in the face of a seemingly hopeless situation.

Learning Reality Therapy, the application of Choice Theory, was the way that I finally began to understand how to help my pupils and students produce work that they valued - quality work. I believe Choice Theory is the very basis upon which Deming's philosophy is founded, not merely some revamped psychological arm. It is helpful, for me, because it is such a simplification of very complex ideas. The main type of question in all applications is 'Is what you're doing in your life helping you to get what you really want?' The wants are of course based on the needs, and uncovering what we really want may not be straightforward.

A Summary of the implications for us is contained in the following chart: OHP:


CHOICE THEORY maintains that for every minute of our lives all our behaviour is internally motivated and chosen. It is our best attempt at the time to satisfy one or more of the five basic needs (survival, significance, belonging, freedom and fun) programmed into our genetic structure. It rests on ten axioms:

  1. We can only control our own behaviour.
  2. All we can give another person is information.
  3. All long-lasting psychological problems are relationship problems.
  4. The problem relationship is part of our present life.
  5. Our past may determine what we are today, but we can only satisfy our needs right now and plan to continue satisfying them in the future.
  6. We can only satisfy our needs by satisfying the pictures in the core of our being - the Quality World.
  7. All we do is behave.
  8. All behaviour involves and is made up of four components: acting, thinking, feeling and physiology.
  9. All behaviour is chosen, but we only have direct control over the acting and thinking components. We control our feelings and physiology indirectly through how we choose to act and think.
  10. All total behaviour is designated by verbs and named by the part that is the most recognisable. Example: rephrasing "I'm depressed" or "it depresses me" to become "I'm choosing to depress". This reminds us that we are not passive victims of an unfeeling reality, but are responsible for how we feel.

Although simple in outline I have found applying it to be as difficult as an alcoholic choosing not to drink. I conclude that I was addicted to behaviourism, and can never consider myself completely cured. I am a recovering behaviourist.

Example from industry:

A friend of mine manages the central accounts department for a large company with a variety of activities. He described as a mistake his taking on a woman whose unhappiness was upsetting a large open plan office. The staff were beginning to feel that they were at fault, and they were becoming critical of her, which was compounding the problem. I told him that I felt this woman was unhappy about a current problem relationship. Eventually he did discover from her that work had become her only release from a tense domestic situation. Although originally she had agreed with him that it was best if she left, she was in fact desperate to keep the job, where she felt competent. He managed to help her after only a brief introduction to counselling, and there was a satisfactory outcome. This example illustrates the need to distinguish between what someone says they want, and what they really want. Some children will disrupt classes for their entire time at school, when in fact they really want to do well.

Examples from teaching:

1) A boy with a history of violence in primary school joined us and immediately began to bully children in year 7. The punishments meted out by the school were described as counterproductive by the management. They were persuaded to let him chaperone a girl who had transferred from another school. He was described as a transformed person after one week, with many quite surprised by the result. The simple explanation is that he had been helped to find a more effective way to satisfy his power need, which was the cause of the bullying in the first place. This shows how the two theories of behaviour lead to quite different approaches for dealing with problems.

2) Homework: I started by conducting a survey into how they felt about homework, whether they found it useful. I discovered a visceral hatred which was felt by almost 100%. It appeared to violate all the needs in one go. I listened to their reasons and showed real sympathy for their predicament. What could we do about it since it was in my contract to set it? We came to a deal where I would make it very easy and relevant to the current lessons. They would self-mark next lesson, and I would collect it in and countersign with a "pass" those who go 90% plus correct. Those who missed for any reason should have no fear of detentions (the normal consequence of missing it), and would simply do it next lesson. Those who did not pass were usually helped to do so by friends during the following lesson. The result was that I collected in full class sets of homework, whilst my colleagues, who were still punishing, were grateful if they got half the books in. There was less evidence of direct copying, and the children were much happier in lessons. Despite knowing what I was doing most teachers could not manage the change, and felt they had to still give out detentions otherwise they would be seen as not doing their job.

I made a lot of mistakes during the two year pilot study. I felt that I had a good idea and in my anxiety to move quickly I discovered that you cannot force an idea upon someone, even a good idea. Your innovations may only work if people choose them. So if people initially believe you are wrong they may continue to choose what they know and prevent themselves from experiencing an alternative. This is a relativistic theory, I discovered. What a person thinks is happening is important. If you are judged to be sincere, then people will forgive a lot. I think we excuse our parents' mistakes because we have a need to believe that deep down they acted out of love for us.

There remain some interesting apparent paradoxes for the teacher on the road to transforming how they want to approach the job. If you believe in co-operation and work in a competitive ethos, your colleagues may see you as not co-operative for constantly challenging their assumptions. You will be caught in a logical contradiction and seem to advocate neither view. Perhaps you are just confused, or being awkward.

How is change possible at all when you can only view a new system of thought from the standpoint of the existing one? The questions to be resolved are those of leadership. How to lead in such a way that you inspire in others the desire and the means to improve? How to persuade people that what looks inevitable is really a choice that they have made, even though it has never been verbalised?

Kohn asks how can a system so dysfunctional as behaviourism have arisen in the first place? I would add, for how much longer can we tolerate the treatment of children that we see everyday in schools at the end of the Twentieth Century? I gained some insight into this question from The History of Childhood by Lloyd de Mause. This book was the result of the collaboration of historians with psychiatrists, and it provides evidence for the abuse of women and children going back to the stone age. He speculates that the physical and sexual abuse that we now consider deviant, was once the norm.

OHP: The Evolution of Child Rearing Modes.

Finally I would like to draw together and connect four recent influences upon me, which reflect different pieces of the jigsaw of a new epistemology, or system of knowledge.

OHP: Deming, Glasser, Kohn and Feuerstein: Relationships and Quality.
W.Edwards Deming
  • quality as a process
  • profound knowledge:

1) psychology

2) systems thinking

3) theory of knowledge; leadership is prediction

4) variation - statistics

William Glasser

a theory for Deming;

external control thinking challenged with invention of:

  • choice theory

its application is called

  • reality therapy
These four areas can be linked through the need to understand
the concept of quality in terms of human relationships.
Alfie Kohn and the social psychologists
  • rewards
  • punishments
  • competition

all damage intrinsic motivation and the need to feel competent and in control

Reuven Feuerstein
  • how children learn
  • mediated learning: adults who can help interpret the world
  • learning potential assessment device
  • abolish 'intelligence'
  • abolish immutability

What interests me about this is that we obtain a simple picture of what is important in living. Without fulfilling relationships in our lives, what is the point of pursuing quality? In the discourse on quality that was the subject of 'Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance' the final irony was that despite Pirsig's insights into knowledge and Western Culture, he had not been able to obtain what was most important to him - a satisfying relationship with his son. I can say that Glasser's influence has enabled me to do this.

INTERNAL CONTROL BEHAVIOURISM

punishments and rewards remove individual

responsibility for behaviour










INTERNAL CONTROL CHOICE THEORY

replace denial of reality with taking responsibility for

choice of behaviour